Six months later she’s out to lunch with friends. They’re all showing off their latest diamonds and stories of how romantic (or not) their husbands are. She sips her Riesling, biding her time. She smiles, leans in for the kill. And tells them about the experience that you gave her, still as fresh in her mind as if it were yesterday. And even the ladies who think their fellas are romantic go home hoping maybe just at least there will be a rose laying on their pillow tonight? You made an investment in your relationship, and it just paid dividends.